There are two different life views: Dependence and self-determination.
The first group of people (sadly too many) see themselves as balls swimming in the ocean of life. Dependent on the season, weather conditions and tide, they are being swung back and forth. Sometimes it goes uphill and sometimes downhill. They do not feel capable of taking influence on their lives. Hence, success and happiness appear only temporarily and randomly.
I call these people victims.
They like to complain about the lows and blame it on other people, coincidence, or even a higher force. The other group reaches the next level of insight and actively strives for success. Although they often not carry the can for their past and present, they usually try to actively design their future. They have learned that they can at least co-create happiness. They do not understand and apply the universal laws yet. Then there are those (sadly too few) who live their lives completely self-determined. They take full responsibility for the past, present and future. They know that they have created or at least attracted everything in their lives. Success and failure: They exclusively hold themselves accountable – not the outside world. They understand and apply the universal laws in order to design their dream lives. They are exceptionally successful in everything they are doing. They are grounded, contented, and balanced. If any misfortunes appear, they stay relaxed, learn, and do it better next time.
I call these people creators.
In a positive sense. Creator comes from creation. Humans who create their lives by leveraging the thought-word-action continuum. Those who design their roles and thus use effectively use their time on planet earth. Someone like you will be.
Most people play smaller or greater victim roles considering the events in their lives. To me, there are two main reasons: Either they do not know the universal laws and their effectiveness. This excuse does not apply to you anymore. Alternatively, it is convenient for them to not take ownership. It allows them to complain without the need to switch into active gear in order to change their lives.
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Ok. Good. You are acting in a self-determined manner. Success did not come into your life yet. A day, a week, and a month pass by. You are still not a millionaire. Still have not found your soul mate. Still suffer from asthma. Stay calm. Have trust. You are on the right track.