If you do not like something, change it. If you cannot change it, change your attitude.
Maya Angelou hits the nail on the head. You want to change things now. The country Egotism will teach you what to do. What are attitudes? They form your personality and build the foundation of behavioral changes. Inside and outside. How does this happen? In the first step, you cultivate attitudes, which support your mission and aims in life. As soon as you ensure consistency between thoughts and feelings as well as stringency between words and actions, you will discover a great secret: Your thoughts and feelings will become reality. You will be successful and contented alike.
Success comes from succeeding.
Your actions succeed your words, which succeed your thoughts and feelings. You are successful and contented alike. Therefore, define your mission and aims in life soon after visiting this country. Your attitudes should be aligned to them in the future. Always try to have positive attitudes, optimistic expectations regarding specific events and affirmative perceptions as well as memories of past situations.
Mastering this continuum is art of life instead of self-deception.
Confirmatory programming represents a healthy belief system. In other words: If you continuously have negative thoughts and thus feelings, you are fighting your body. You can only loose. Be smart. Learn to reflect the inside and outside world constantly. Take interventions as soon as you identify destructive tendencies. This is a life-task. ExperienceZone provides you the tools to master it.
In the first step, document all events, which you did not like in the last month. If one month is not sufficient to capture three events by area of life, go back half a year. In case even an annual review is insufficient, you are either already living a very successful, contented and balanced life or you have a very optimistic or humble attitude profile.
“I do not want to become an ignorant reality denier wearing rose-colored glasses!” Many people justify their resistance to destructive reactions with appropriate realism. Others claim to lose their authenticity if they suppress their natural reactions. Even worse: They are afraid of physical or mental dysfunctions resulting from suppressions. If you belong to those people who fear a loss of authenticity, consider the following: If your thoughts, feelings, words, and actions are in line, you are authentic.
The mental brothers of realists believe that events in the outside world happen coincidentally or in a destined way. Both extremes are untrue. The truth lies in the middle on another level: The very fact of your cheer existence makes a difference in the world.
Some people progress fast in reflecting, back-pedaling, and applying new attitudes. This is great. Yet they sometimes stop to read their mantras and consciously walk the process too soon. Falling back into old behavioral patterns. If they additionally lack the will to restart, the overall result is zero. Be aware of that.